Hi Alzy, welcome to Suggie Lumps, you're in the right place, we're all completely obsessesed too! lol.
Hopefully you've given the pet shop lady something to think about. I have a booklet (well it's 13 pages long) that you can email to her if you like. It's what I give out to people that email me asking for advice (most of it is actually in the pinned topics on here though!), it contains details about housing, socialisation, diet etc. Everything except breeding, I'm working on that section at the minute

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