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« on: December 03, 2011, 08:38:53 am »

Hi!

Been a while since i've been posting here. But we've got our suggies since september and still have trouble bonding with them.

Have to say, the start went quite well and we're able to touch/pet them when they're in the cage. They even seem to be screaming for more attention while they're in the cage and you walk by Cheesy Whatever we do they don't crab but we cannot put our hand in the pouch because of Elmo freaking out and lunging at me (giving him candy this way is a different story)

To give a short summary of their characters, Kiwi is the female shy one that stresses alot even though she's only thinking about getting out of the cage. But she is the one that is easiest to pet and wants the most interaction. Elmo is the male curious one that likes to get out of the cage as fast as possible but does not want to be picked up or touched while he's out of the cage.

The moment we let them out of the cage they generally show no interest in us or candy. You're not able to pet them and they don't come even near us. Last night they spend 2hrs mostly sitting around instead of running but getting them back in to the cage was a fulltime job. They couldn't be coerced to come back to their cage with candy or sweet fruity food. Eventually Kiwi jumped on my girlfriend and could be tricked in to entering the cage but we had to move Elmo with laundry basket and all to the cage.

I'm starting to wonder if we're doing something wrong or forgetting some steps in getting them to bond better to us.
Right now we're using a blanket with our scent in their pouch, walking around with the pouch, feeding them small daytime treats and letting them run in the room. If someone has tips/tricks for us to turn this in to a better bond and more suggie interaction i would gladly hear it!
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« Reply #1 on: December 03, 2011, 09:23:43 am »

Ha! This sounds familiar! When I first got my girls I lived in a flat in chester and I kept their cage in the living room. If I put my hand/arm in the cage they would climb all over me, groom me, lick me ..... as soon as they were out of the cage they didn't wana know me! The room was pretty basic, just a sofa and tv so I used to let them out on a night time but getting them back into the cage was impossible for me to do alone. Because the room was so safe I used to just hang the pouch on the outside of the cage and 90% of the time they would be snuggled up inside it the next morning so I cud just pop them back inside. Sometimes they would end up sleeping between the cushions on my sofa so i'd try and coax them back into their pouch from their and then bundle them back into the cage.

They seemed so friendly and interested in me from inside the cage but I could be sat in the room with them for hours and not once would they approach me when they were out. Too busy chasing eachother. Like yours, they weren't comfortable at being handled so the times that I did have to litterally chase them around the living room and grab them whilst they were squirming and crabbing to get free didn't really help in the way of bonding! I just tried to be patient and hope that is I jsut sat there with treats at hand, sooner or later they would approach me. This was after having them for 5months!

Then I moved home and I wasn't able to let them out to play in a room overnight, they just had a small corridor that I let them out in. Still hard to catch even in a small space! Then we got a puppy and for about 2 weeks I didn't really get to spend much time with my girls. Then one night I went upstairs, took their pouch out of the cage and sat in the corridor. I started feeding them treats in their pouch and then I just tried my luck and went to pick one of them up. And she just sat there and let me asif it was the most normal thing in the world! I'm not quite sure what changed, maybe because of my absence in the previous 2 wk they became calmer, i'm not sure. But since then they'll both use me as a tree during play time. I have a cage that I can stand inside (just because I can't really let them out in a big room so I built them a big cage instead!) and it's actually hard to get out of the cage after playtime because as soon as I pull one of them off me the other jumps on. Still not perfect at being handled but getting better. So don't lose hope, it can just take a LONG time!x
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